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Hsien / Influence (Wooing)Reciprocal Influence
The name of the hexagram means "universal," "general," and in a figurative sense "to influence," "to stimulate." The upper trigram is Tui, the Joyous; the lower is Kên, Keeping still. By its persistent, quiet influence, the lower, rigid trigram stimulates the upper, weak trigram, which responds to this stimulation cheerfully and joyously.Kên, the lower trigram,
is the youngest son; the upper, Tui, is the youngest daughter. Thus the universal mutual attraction between the sexes is represented. In courtship, the masculine principle must seize the initiative and place itself below the feminine principle. Just as the first part of book I begins with the hexagrams of heaven and earth, the foundations of all that exists, the second part begins with the hexagrams of courtship and marriage, the foundations of all social relationships. THE JUDGMENT Influence. Success. Perseverance furthers. To take a maiden to wife brings good fortune. The weak element is above, the strong below; hence their powers attract each other, so that they unite. This brings about success, for all success depends on the effect of mutual attraction. By keeping still within while experiencing joy without, one can prevent the joy from going to excess and hold it within proper bounds.This is the meaning of the added
admonition, "Perseverance furthers," for it is perseverance that makes the difference between seduction and courtship; in the latter the strong man takes a position inferior to that of the weak girl and shows consideration for her. This attraction between affinities is a general law of nature. Heaven and earth attract each other and thus all creatures come into being. Through such attraction the sage influences men's hearts, and thus the world attains peace. From the attractions they exert we can learn the nature of all beings in heaven and on earth. This is a natural influence, without second objectives and implies both to accept and to exercise influence on other person. Perseverance means to continue in the sense that provides the influence until achieving a union that reaffirms it. Influence is symbol of a progressive and quick conquest. THE IMAGE A lake on the mountain: The image of influence. Thus the superior man encourages people to approach him By his readiness to receive them. A mountain with a lake on its summit is stimulated by the moisture from the lake. It has this advantage because its summit does not jut out as a peak but is sunken. The image counsels that the mind should be kept humble and free, so that it may remain receptive to good advice. People soon give up counseling a man who thinks that he knows everything better than anyone else. The lake resting in the summit of a mountain gives the idea of a reciprocal influence of complementary forces. To be in touch with this time, one must receive others with an open mind, without selfish attitudes. All preconceive attitudes are useless in this time. THE LINES Six at the beginning means: The influence shows itself in the big toe. A movement, before it is actually carried out, shows itself first in the toes. The idea of an influence is already present, but is not immediately apparent to others. As long as the intention has no visible effect, it is of no importance to the outside world and leads neither to good nor to evil. This represents to have achieved a small mobilization or motivation. To move the big toe also means influence not noticed by whom achieves it. In another interpretation level, to make a person move the big toe means insufficient influence. Six in the second place means: The influence shows itself in the calves of the legs. Misfortune. Tarrying brings good fortune. In movement, the calf of the leg follows the foot; by itself it can neither go forward nor stand still. Since the movement is not self-governed, it bodes ill. One should wait quietly until one is impelled to action by a real influence. Then one remains uninjured. To move the calves means lack of own decision in the movements, misfortune. For that reason it is announced that it would be better to stay in one's place, that is to say, not to lose the independence in the actions. Nine in the third place means: The influence shows itself in the thighs. Holds to that which follows it. To continue is humiliating. Every mood of the heart influences us to movement. What the heart desires, the thighs run after without a moment's hesitation; they hold to the heart, which they follow. In the life of man, however, acting on the spur of every caprice is wrong and if continued leads to humiliation. Three considerations suggest themselves here. First, a man should not run precipitately after all the persons whom he would like to influence, but must be able to hold back under certain circumstances. As little should he yield immediately to every whim of those in whose service he stands. Finally, where the moods of his own heart are concerned, he should never ignore the possibility of inhibition, for this is the basis of human freedom. To move the thighs refers to an impulsive, not meditated movement, with the result if continuing this way it would be inconvenient. This implies that one is susceptible of any influence, or of a constant search of being influenced, that is to say, a tendency to follow others, with the result that one cannot stay in calm. Not to be able to stay in calm means not to find what is really wanted. For that reason, in this case, to follow the other ones is not a virtuous behavior. Nine in the fourth place means:: Perseverance brings good fortune. Remorse disappears. If a man is agitated in mind, And his thoughts go hither and thither, Only those friends On whom he fixes his conscious thoughts Will follow. Here the place of the heart is reached. The impulse that springs from this source is the most important of all. It is of particular concern that this influence be constant and good; then, in spite of the danger arising from the great susceptibility of the human heart, there will be no cause for remorse. When the quiet power of a man's own character is at work, the effects produced are right. All those who are receptive to the vibrations of such a spirit will then be influenced. Influence over others should not express itself as a conscious and willed effort to manipulate them. Through practicing such conscious incitement, one becomes wrought up and is exhausted by the eternal stress and strain. Moreover, the effects produced are then limited to those on whom one's thoughts are consciously fixed. This person is looking for exercising influence, but such a search takes to an over anxious activity to influence others, for that reason he acts restlessly. But as his influence power is very limited, only his friends will follow him. This means that influence is not applicable in a more general way, which doesn't have expansion possibility at the moment. Nine in the fifth place means:: The influence shows itself in the back of the neck. No remorse. The back of the neck is the most rigid part of the body. When the influence shows itself there, the will remains firm and the influence does not lead to confusion. Hence remorse does not enter into consideration here. What takes place in the depths of one's being, in the unconscious mind. It is true that if we cannot be influenced ourselves, we cannot influence the outside world. The back of the neck can also be translated as "the flesh along the spine above the heart" (James Legge). The spine means center, therefore, the reference to the influence that achieves a person to move the spine means non-confused, authentic influence. All the nervous ramifications take root in the spine, for that reason, an influence that it is able to move along it, also means expanding influence. Six at the top means: The influence shows itself in the jaws, cheeks, and tongue. The most superficial way of trying to influence others is through talk that has nothing real behind it. The influence produced by such mere tongue wagging must necessarily remain insignificant. Hence no indication is added regarding good or bad fortune. A weak person intends to influence others by sweet words. But the extensive oratorical perhaps doesn't express anything or very little and would achieve nothing.